Release
the Power of the Real You
Five Steps to Know Thyself
By Victoria Munro
To enjoy true success, we need
to discover—really know—who we are at our core.
Having a clear understanding of who we are, what matters most
to us, and what we want to accomplish in life releases tremendous
energy. It inspires confidence and ignites within us a sense of
purpose. It gives meaning to even trivial tasks.
Yet, in our demanding lives as business owners, we seldom take
time to step back and reflect on such things. Because I believe
that it will result in a much more
joyful and productive you, I suggest you plan
now—mark it on your calendar—to take a little time
away to look at your big picture. Think about what
success means to you and where you ultimately want to take
your life. The following steps will help.
Step One -
Acknowledge Your Strengths, Natural Talents and Special Skills
Be aware of what you do really well. Continually develop and
draw on your strengths. Working out of your strengths stirs up
creativity and innovation, better equipping you to solve problems
and avoid pitfalls.
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Ask Yourself: |
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What comes easily and naturally
to me? What do I do really well? |
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What do I look forward to each
day? |
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How do I stand out from others
in my field? Make a list. |
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What do I do that makes
the business successful? |
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Looking back over my life to date,
what are my five or six most significant achievements? |
Get another point of view. Ask those who know you well to tell
you how they would answer these questions for you. Find out what
they most admire about you.
Step Two -
Admit Your Weaknesses
Be aware of your limitations but, instead of trying to fix them,
major on your strengths. Build a team around you that will complement
your weak areas and allow you to focus on what you do best.
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Ask Yourself: |
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What do I find distasteful and/or
difficult? Make a list. |
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What do I tend to procrastinate
about? |
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What weaknesses have others commented
on that I feel were accurate? |
Step Three -
Know What You Stand For
Identify
your core values—those non-negotiables that are truly
important to you. Commit to live your life in alignment with these
and do what you believe to be right, even when others may misunderstand
or disagree. Knowing what we value provides us with clear guidelines
for choices and actions.
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Ask Yourself: |
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What actions can I take to better
honor what I claim to value? |
Step Four - Pursue Your Purpose
with Passion
Before you can pursue it, you need to find your purpose. It’s
likely linked to your strengths and your values.
At some level, we all want to do something meaningful that will
make a difference in the world. Think about what you do or have
done in the past that you were passionate about. What stirs, excites
or motivates you?
Talk about your purpose. Stir
up your passion. Share it with friends, family, colleagues
and anyone who’ll listen. Passion is contagious. It inspires
confidence in others and rallies them to your cause.
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Ask Yourself: |
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What is it that I just have
to do? |
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What did I enjoy doing as a child?
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What have I done in the past or
do now that I’m passionate about? What stirs, excites
or motivates me? |
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If money weren’t an issue,
how would I spend my time? |
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Looking back at the end of my
life, what will I regret not having done? |
Step Five - Write Your Personal
Vision Statement
A personal vision statement brings clarity to everyday life.
It acts as a compass to guide you through the seas of life. It
helps you make decisions in line with where you want to go in
life and set goals and take actions to get there.
What do you want your vision of the future to look like? Write
out or record your description. Use your imagination. Employ all
your senses. Bring in emotion—describe how you will feel.
When complete, distill it into one or two sentences. Post it where
you’ll see it often.
Review your personal vision statement often. Since circumstances
can change, you may want to adjust it. Surround yourself with
people who believe in your vision.
Knowing yourself, being true to the real you and pursuing
your purpose—your mission in life—will
release renewed energy and set you on an exhilarating and fulfilling
journey to achieve your dream.
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